So let me set the scene for you.
Me, my boyfriend (James), my best friend (Amber), her boyfriend (Chandler) and my “second-dad” (Chris) all planned to hang out tomorrow.
We planned to go out to eat and hang out a bit afterwards and ever considered a little movie date for all of us.
Today, Chandler messaged Amber and said something that I find kind of offensive.
“I don’t want to hang out with Sarah and James.”
Maybe I took it personal, when maybe I wasn’t supposed to – who knows.
After reading that, Amber said that she would go to the mall and out to eat with us and then hang out with Chandler afterwards (which was absolutely fine with me).
Later on, Amber tells me that she cancelled on Chandler and is just going to hang out with him on Sunday.
You can tell she’s upset and she mentioned that they had been fighting a bit.
She also tells me that she really wants to hang out with me.
I’m happy that she’s hanging out with me because I’ve missed her.
But the thing is, I feel like I’m going to push their relationship a bit.
They’ve been fighting lately and I feel like this isn’t going to help.
Maybe I shouldn’t be worried because it isn’t my relationship and not my business, but I can’t help it.
UGH WHY DO I HAVE TO OVERREACT AND READ TOO FAR INTO THINGS.